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Episode 146: Focus on You

Jun 20, 2022

Episode 145: Avoiding Pornography - Three Tips

Jun 13, 2022

Episode 144: A Thank You Letter To Porn

Jun 06, 2022

Episode 143: What it takes to quit pornography

May 30, 2022

Episode 146: Focus on You accountability agency becoming a solid person changing the narrative thinking about the problem differently Jun 20, 2022

Overcome Pornography: Focusing on Yourself Is the Only Way

Happy Fathers’ Day yesterday! I hope it was a pleasant day with ample food and kind words. 


Before I forget, this week I have a free masterclass set up for you on Wednesday at 7:30 PM MT.  We are going to be learning how to drop the porn struggle.  Be sure to register at

How to become an expert on yourself and why it matters if you want to leave pornography behind.

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Episode 145: Avoiding Pornography - Three Tips accountability changing the narrative choices Jun 13, 2022

This week we are going to discuss your cycle of avoidance and how to recognize what is going on for you around this cycle and a few things you can do to help remove yourself from the cycle. 

We’ve talked about experiential avoidance or buffering in episodes 5, 6, and 135.  I’ll link to those episodes in the show notes. 

Humans have a unique ability to problem-solve. From the very beginning of human existence, we have learned how to survive in the world. 


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Episode 144: A Thank You Letter To Porn quit porn thanks Jun 06, 2022

Overcome Pornography: A Thank You Letter To Porn


This week is a really busy week.  YM camp up in Enterprise and speaking at a Youth Conference here in town.  

The more angst that we have toward pornography, we think is going to create the motivation to stay away. 

But what that is more likely doing is giving it power over you.  

I think we think that if we create a harsh relationship with something, it will banish that thing from our lives. 


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Episode 143: What it takes to quit pornography quit porn May 30, 2022

Overcome Pornography: What it takes to finally quit pornography


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  1. Willingness to think differently about the problem

Episode 89 - Emotional Debtor and Episode 100 - Pornography is not THE problem 



  1. An understanding of what is happening and why
  2. Can’t run away, can’t push it out of your mind
  3. You have to face it
  4. Ask questions
  5. Be willing to confront what it is objectively and curiously
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Episode 142: How To Ruin a Night Out: Three tips accountability experiential avoidance May 23, 2022

Overcome Pornography: How to Ruin a Night Out - Three Tips


How much power do you give the random strangers in Las Vegas. 


On Friday we had tickets to see Jim Gaffigan in Las Vegas. 

I was looking forward to it.  Darcy was, too. 


Unfortunately, Jim got Covid and the show was canceled at the last minute.  


We didn’t find out until after we were down there and had dinner. 

So, we decided to catch another show.  


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Episode 141: 3 Secrets to Manage Emotions to Overcome Pornography manage emotions understand emotions May 16, 2022

Overcome Pornography: 3 Secrets to Managing Emotions


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Bonus - Changing the Narrative around pornography - interview with Heather Rackham changing the narrative family overcome pornography May 11, 2022

Overcome Pornography: Changing the Narrative around pornography - interview with Heather Rackham

  *NOTE - This is a transcript of our conversation and may be more difficult to follow than the interview. 

Hey everybody on Monday, I said in the podcast that I was going to offer a bonus episode of the conversation that I had with the LDS life coaches. And here it is, I've got it for you right now. I just wanna offer this out to you. You know, we talk about changing the narrative...

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Episode 140 - Families Are Being Torn Apart By Pornography Use family have a different conversation May 09, 2022

 *NOTE - This is a transcript of our conversation and may be more difficult to follow than the interview. 


So, we got an email about a podcast we did and I'm going to actually release the entire podcast as a bonus on Wednesday so you can listen to it. 

We did an interview with Heather Rackum at The LDS Life Coaches Podcast and it was a fantastic. I thought it was that fantastic podcast.

The point of the podcast was to change the conversation around pornography to help...

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Episode 139: Thought Control Isn't As Helpful at Overcoming Pornography pink elephant thought management May 02, 2022


Overcoming pornography isn’t just pushing a new thought into your mind to supersede the thoughts that have naturally occurred.  

I think we’ve all heard the analogy of the stage of your mind and how we can become totally free from the plague of our unwanted thoughts by just changing what’s on the stage.  

While I think this is a worthy attempt to advise and assist those struggling with pornography or any other issue, it falls short in actual...

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Episode 138: 3 Keys to Using Prayer to Overcome Pornography agency prayer Apr 25, 2022


I’d like to take you back to General Conference a few weeks back. I loved listening to President Nelson as he spoke about how to keep spiritual momentum. 

If you don’t recall the talk, he offered 5 ways to Maintain positive spiritual momentum. 

The five were

  1. Get on the covenant path and stay there.
  2. Discover the joy of daily repentance.
  3. Learn about God and how He works.
  4. Seek and expect miracles.
  5. End conflict in your personal life.

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