The number one Podcast for Overcoming Pornography:
1. Write down the websites you will visit that day
a. Writing down the websites gives your higher brain control over the situation.
b. Why not just write the sites you won’t visit – there are too many to count
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Here's the link to the webinar for July 2020:
If you want to register for the webinar to help decondition urges and stop using pornography follow this link: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZItcu2vqz4iEtwha5erXQmdgBu9xHjMWQwr
If you want to set up a free consult so you can be in the July 1 Group Coaching Program follow this link: https://calendly.com/habitcoachz/30-min-consult-clone
Every time I meet with a client I hear something along these lines.
I try to stop but I just can’t – I have been fighting through this my whole life – My whole world is burning down because of this addiction.
I am keeping it at bay, but I want to be free from this.
This is the place most of us go to when we try to stop a habit in our lives.
Why we use pornography even when we don’t want to.
When we try to control our feelings the results begin to overwhelm us.
The paradox of control
On a personal level, it refers to the phenomenon by which the harder a person tries to control something, the more difficult it becomes to exercise that control. Examples that are often given of this phenomenon are: (1) the harder...
What is, not what should be
All good stories start at 330 am right. September 15 2001, just a few days after the September 11th terrorist attack, my missionary companion, the other two elders in our apartment and I were sound asleep in our seventh floor flat two blocks from the piazza garibaldi train station in naples Italy.
On the minds of each of us was this great...
Making decisions from a place of fear.
What is fear and why do we often make decisions from a place of fear rather than from a place of abundance?
Fear of missing out
Not having enough
Not being conservative enough
How is fear different than caution and how can we tell the difference?
What is it about making a decision from a place of...
Why Would my Husband Lie to me? And other questions Wives ask when their spouse uses pornography.
Over the last couple of weeks my wife and I have had a number of conversations with a new client and his wife.
They had enrolled in my 13 week course and after one session she hadn’t felt like she had seen any changes.
This was hard for her because she was dealing with so much pain,...