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Choices – the way forward.
Finding your way is a matter of choices and making the ones that you believe will bring you the most happiness.
So, I often work with young men struggling with pornography who are just about to graduate high school and, for members of the church of Jesus Christ of latter-day saints, that means that they are getting ready to choose whether they...
I was having a conversation with a fellow coach friend of mine
She had walked in on her 16-year-old son using pornography
We got to talking about how she reacted and how finally she said to him ”I can’t keep you safe”
The truth is that we can’t keep our loved ones from doing any of the buffering that they choose to engage in.
In fact, I had a dear friend who...
The first thing you’re going to do to reduce buffering is to allow urges.
- Allow vs eliminate
- Allow vs indulge
- Urges come no matter what
The second thing you’re going to do to reduce buffering is to make all of your decisions involving your usual buffer with...
Before I talk about how it all ended, let's talk about what pornography use is for most people.
There are addicts, those people who, without regard for the consequences and unable...
I started attending 12 step meetings in 2007.
I also went to meetings sanctioned by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, of which I am a member.
Those Church sanctioned meetings were full of guys that were pretty similar to me. No one had committed a crime (I don't think) in pursuit of their sexual desires, but none of them seemed able to overcome their pornography...
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Overcoming Pornography Sometimes Means Failure, You Can Learn From Failure and Succeed.
So many addicts are hindered by their view of failure that it actually creates greater difficulty in overcoming their pornography use.
As a coach I teach my clients that thoughts are one of the biggest factors in how we feel and act, leading to the results we create.
When they view pornography, fall...
Agency and Pornography Addiction
Agency is a really important part of everyday life. Many of us think of it as our freedom of choice and in a lot of ways that’s right.
For individuals who believe they are addicted to some behavior or another the phrase, “I can’t stop” is a typical refrain.
I find it interesting and powerful that the phrase “I...
