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EPISODE 67: Why would my husband look at pornography when he can use me? Dec 20, 2020

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EPISODE 66: 5 Keys to Trust Again Dec 13, 2020

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First, we want to announce here on the podcast that this is the year!  

Darcy and I have built a world class membership for you and your loved ones to come and make 2021 your year to finally put pornography behind you and as a special offer, you can be a founding member for less than the cost of one date night each month. 

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Bonus - About Intimacy with Amanda Louder Dec 09, 2020

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EPISODE 65: A Young Woman Struggles with Pornography Use Dec 06, 2020

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This interview with Ashlee Ayre is meant to give hope and a path forward to anyone who is dealing with pornography use in their life as a teen.

 

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EPISODE 64: Demand Your Spouse Change Nov 29, 2020

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EPISODE 63: Your Brain is a Liar Nov 22, 2020

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Your brain is probably lying to you

One of the things that happens when we start down the path of buffering is that our brains will tell us things that are not true. 

 

It will try subtle phrases that it knows have worked in the past and that have taken you down the path of your buffer before.  

 

It does this because a little lie is ok most of the time...

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EPISODE 62: Client Interview With Eric and Jackie - The Impact of Coaching Nov 15, 2020

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An interview with Eric and Jackie, a couple who has been coached by Zach and Darcy through pornography issues in their marriage.

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EPISODE 61: Motivation isn't as helpful as tiny habits Nov 08, 2020

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Motivation and willpower aren’t enough. 

When I was about 14 years old I told myself that I wasn’t going to do this any more.  I knew what I was doing was not really something that I wanted to be doing but felt like I had to just get the right motivation and put some willpower to it and it would be done.  

I could quit this.  I...

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EPISODE 60: Connect with what you truly want Nov 01, 2020

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Welcome to another beautiful mastery Monday, this is the Monday before election day.  Please go vote.  Regardless of what your political views are, be a part of the conversation, vote. 

Our 4 year old, Felicity came to me and said “My belly is saying food, I listened and I  can hear it talking inside my body.  It says it wants...

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EPISODE 59: Don't Give Away Your Power To Be Happy Oct 25, 2020

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Have you ever been upset by someone who wasn't behaving how you thought they should.

Take a listen to this week's Mastery Monday.

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EPISODE 58: Abdication vs delegation Oct 18, 2020

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Abdication v delegation

I’m releasing this while I’m walking down a slot canyon somewhere in southern Ut so if you want to get together with me while I’m here, feel free to message me on Instagram zachspafford.theselfmasterycoach I love angelicas, the peruvian chicken place or even the Indian place. 

 

On Friday two weeks ago I was in my weekly meeting...

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EPISODE 57: Learn Something, Move Forward Oct 11, 2020

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Learn Something, Move Forward

Taking stock of lapses by learning something and moving forward is the only way to put it behind you.

Each time we do the thing we promised we would never do again we tend to beat ourselves up. We often treat it like we are never going to get past it, we think we are lost, unworthy and powerless.

That wallowing and self pitying approach keeps us from...

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